When I hear a Republican refer to my party as the “Democrat Party,” rather than “Democratic Party,” it’s a signal to me that the speaker is an asshole. It sounds insulting because it is supposed to. When the President of the United States repeatedly refers to the “Democrat Party” it sends the message that he is only the President of the Republican Party — and that he is an asshole. Ruth Marcus expresses the same idea more nicely in today’s Washington Post:

If he wanted to, President Bush could change the tone in Washington with a single syllable: He could just say “ic.” That is, he could stop referring to the opposition as the “Democrat Party” and call the other side, as it prefers, the Democratic Party.

The derisive use of “Democrat” in this way was a Bush staple during the recent campaign. “There are people in the Democrat Party who think they can spend your money far better than you can,” he would say in his stump speech, or, “Raising taxes is a Democrat idea of growing the economy,” or, “However they put it, the Democrat approach in Iraq comes down to this: The terrorists win and America loses.”

But even as he promised to work to change the tone in Washington after the elections, the president couldn’t manage to change his language. In his day-after-the-elections news conference, Bush employed this needling locution five times. “This morning, I spoke with Republican and Democrat leadership in the House and Senate,” he began, adding, “it is clear the Democrat Party had a good night last night.” That was followed by references to “Democrat leaders,” “Democrat leadership” and “Democrat votes,” as in, “We got some tax cuts passed with Democrat votes.” Geez, you’d think he’d at least give them the -ic when they vote for his tax cuts.

President Bush 41 got a dose of reality about his son at an an event in Abu Dhabi earlier this week, and the harsh words appear to have genuinely shocked him:

Former President George H.W. Bush took on Arab critics of his son Tuesday during a testy exchange at a leadership conference in the capital of this U.S. ally.

“My son is an honest man,” Bush told members of the audience harshly criticized the current U.S. leader’s foreign policy…

“We do not respect your son. We do not respect what he’s doing all over the world,” a woman in the audience bluntly told Bush after his speech.

Bush, 82, appeared stunned as others in the audience whooped and whistled in approval.

A college student told Bush his belief that U.S. wars were aimed at opening markets for American companies and said globalization was contrived for America’s benefit at the expense of the rest of the world. Bush was having none of it.

“I think that’s weird and it’s nuts,” Bush said. “To suggest that everything we do is because we’re hungry for money, I think that’s crazy. I think you need to go back to school.”

The hostile comments came during a quesion-and-answer session after Bush finished a folksy address on leadership by telling the audience how deeply hurt he feels when his presidential son is criticized.

“This son is not going to back away,” Bush said, his voice quivering. “He’s not going to change his view because some poll says this or some poll says that, or some heartfelt comments from the lady who feels deeply in her heart about something. You can’t be president of the United States and conduct yourself if you’re going to cut and run. This is going to work out in Iraq. I understand the anxiety. It’s not easy.”

…He told the audience — including dozens of women in black robes and head scarves — he was extremely proud of his sons, President George W. Bush and Florida Gov. Jeb Bush.

He said the happiest day of his life was election day in 1998 when George and Jeb were elected to the governorships of Texas and Florida, but he also described the pain he feels when his sons are attacked.

“I can’t begin to tell you the pride I feel in my two sons,” Bush said. “When your son’s under attack, it hurts. You’re determined to be at his side and help him any way you possibly can.”

…Bush said he was surprised by the audience’s criticism of his son.

“He is working hard for peace. It takes a lot of guts to get up and tell a father about his son in those terms when I just told you the thing that matters in my heart is my family,” he said. “How come everybody wants to come to the United States if the United States is so bad?”