The Dad Factor: Why We Prefer Obama
I was pulling my car into the driveway last night just as John McCain mentioned autism and said it was something about which Sarah Palin would have special knowledge. As I turned off the motor, I thought, “Surely this idiot isn’t confusing autism and Down syndrome. I mean, he wouldn’t, right?
Yes. He did.
In case John McCain reads Pensito Review, I thought I could be helpful to him by visiting the Mayo Clinic web site and pulling definitions of autism and Down syndrome.
Autism is one of a group of serious developmental problems called autism spectrum disorders (ASD) that appear in early childhood — usually before age 3. Though symptoms and severity vary, all autism disorders affect a child’s ability to communicate and interact with others.
Down syndrome is a genetic disorder that causes mental retardation and other problems. The condition varies in severity, so developmental problems may range from mild to serious. Down syndrome is the most common genetic cause of severe learning disabilities in children, occurring in one in every 700 infants.
Let’s review. Autism — communication and interaction. Down syndrome — Mental retardation and severe learning disabilities.
As I’ve watched the three debates, it’s repeatedly flashed through my mind that one of the differences between Obama and McCain is that Obama is such a dad and McCain is such an authoritarian jerk. You can easily picture Obama cavorting with a group of kids, or listening solemnly to their concerns, or helping his preschooler pick what she thinks is the right t-shirt to go with her pants, as he describes in his second book.
McCain, on the other hand, strikes me as practicing fatherhood from afar, turning all childcare over to someone else. In his first wife’s case, to her, and in his second, to whatever nannies or private boarding schools they employed. The difference is not trivial. The fact that only thing we can picture McCain doing with kids is ordering them off his grass says a lot about the kind of leader he would be. A man who doesn’t bother to understand the difference between a child with one type of special need and another seems to me a pretty cold fish.



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